November is National Adoption Awareness Month

SIDNEY — Judge Beigel of the Shelby County Probate & Juvenile Court reminds local residents that November is National Adoption Awareness Month and a time to recognize the importance of adoption in the lives of parents and children.

The court oversees an average of 28 adoptions yearly. It noted that adoptions come in all shapes and sizes. Some involve an abused, neglected or dependent child. Some involve a relative or step-parent making a commitment to a child’s life. In other cases the natural parents have bravely decided that adoption is best for a child. The common denominator in all of these adoptions is love.

In 2018, the Court heard 29 petitions for adoption. Of the adoptions granted, seven (7) were step-parent adoptions, two were private adoptions, four were grandparent and relative adoptions, two were foreign adoptions in which the court ordered an Ohio birth record, seven were children who were in the permanent custody of Children Services, and one was the adoption of an adult. Adoption permanently terminates a natural parent’s rights and the adoptive parent then permanently becomes the parent of the child.

About 16 children are currently in foster placement through Shelby County Children Services. The Court noted that Shelby County is fortunate to have a good foster care system. Foster-to-adopt parents, Children Services, and the Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) all play a vital role in the process.

Ashley Sherry of Shelby County Children Services said “adoption is not the call to have the perfect, rosy family. It is the call to give love, mercy, and patience. Every child deserves a permanent home where they can be loved, cared for and kept safe. In Ohio, there are approximately 3,500 children waiting to be adopted. These children need a family to consider their own and create stability and structure in their lives.

“Many children within the foster care system will not return to their biological family and this is where prospective families can help. Becoming an adoptive parent is an opportunity to change the lives of children in need. Working with the agency adoption staff is a great way to start the process of adoption. All prospective adoptive parents must have a home study completed, which includes information gathering, training, criminal background checks and more. This process can take up to six months to complete. Adoptive parents can be married, single, widowed or divorced, a home owner or renter, with or without children of their own, and have an income to meet household needs – whether employed or not. Adoptive parents must be committed to caring for children as a positive role model,” she said.

Bridget Davis, director of the Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) program for abused and neglected children, also remarked that “we find so much joy in seeing a child adopted. The adoption hearing comes after a long process through our courts to reunify the child(ren) with their birth parents. When reunifying is unsuccessful with the birth parents the next step is adoption for the child into a non-relative home. We are fortunate to work closely with Shelby County Children Services during the ‘matching’ process of adoption where our opinion is heard on what family would be the best fit for the child.

“There have been 14 children that CASA has worked with that have been adopted thus far in 2019. The child’s case from start to finish can be a long process with bumps along the way and being a part of the adoption process is such a blessing. Moments like these are what make being a CASA worth it,” said Davis.

“There is a great need for loving adoptive parents and no shortage of agencies and services to help. The most joyous event in our court is the adoption of a child in need. We want to celebrate those who have adopted and encourage those thinking about adoption to take the first steps in the process,” said Beigel.

One of the best resources available for those considering adoption is the Ohio Adoption Guide available at Shelby County Children Services is always in need of foster to adopt families. For inquiries, contact Ashley Sherry at 937-498-4981, ext. 2839.